Internet Monitoring
Internet monitoring is based on dissuasion, as opposed to filters that are based on prevention. Internet monitoring helps parents to oversee their childrens' online activities at different levels (depending on the monitor tool and its settings). Monitors enable parents to view online communication such as emails, IM (=Instant Message), chatrooms' conversations, access to websites etc. Parents can choose to do it openly or secretly. There are pros and cons for each approach.
Monitors Types
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Browser monitoring options -
Many browsers and operating systems offer features that
enable you to
oversee activities made online.
- History - Internet browsers usually keep a history of all visited websites for a period of time. The default settings are usually between 20-30 days. When using this option you will be able to see all the websites your child has accessed in the defined time period. Be aware that savvy kids may know how to delete the history or even how to create a false one.
- Cache - Most browsers use a temporary cache mechanism. You can view all recent images that have been displayed on the screen. The temporary cache can be deleted for diffrent reasons, so it is not a reliable source of information.
- Cookies - Most PCs have a file named "cookies", which contains cookie information. This file holds information on all the websites with which the user interacted. This file can be altered or erased so it is not a reliable source of information.
- Screen Monitoring - These monitor tools allowing an adult, such as a parent or a teacher, to view, in real time, on another workstation/PC all that is done on the PC that is being monitored. Some tools allow you to view the content later on (usually 24 hours back).
- Keystroke monitors - These monitor tools allow an adult to view all that has been typed on the PC that is being monitored.
Monitors - Pros and Cons
Advantages:
- When using monitor tools your children do not miss out on legitimate content. Overblocking is not an issue in this case.
- With the right guidance children can develop discretion and judgment skills when using the Internet, and learn to take more responsibility for their choices.
Disadvantages:
- You will not be able to prevent your children from viewing unsuited content or engaging in inappropriate activities. You will only find out retroactively and will be only left with the choice of confronting the child about his/her actions.
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Secrecy or openness, which is better?
- Secrecy - Monitoring your children's Internet activities secretly allows you to gain uncensored information. On the other hand, confronting them on their actions can lead to loss of trust between you and your children. Your children may feel that their privacy has been invaded and it might fracture the communication channels in the family.
- Openness - When you are open with your children about monitoring their Internet activities, you are risking attempts to conceal activities that the child thinks are not acceptable to you. Savvy children can find ways to overcome the monitor tool or find places to surf where they can not be monitored (such as friends' houses and Internet café). On the other hand, you are building trust between you and your children and with continued guidance on the proper guidelines for web surfing, this type of tool may be helpful. If you choose this option do not provide your children with specific monitoring information so it will be more effective.
- A major disadvantage in this method is the time required from parents to effectively monitor the child's Internet use. It is not reasonable for any parent to monitor their child at all times. You can always miss out on problematic behavior. So it is recommended to combine guidance and educational efforts with monitoring tools.